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Birthday: 2/17/1987
Interests: Boating and speeding. Fast is the only way to go to get a full adrenaline rush!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Expertise: Everything that I try I succeed at to a certain degree. I love to try new things. When I try them I usually do well at them too! So I guess living in general is my expertise!!!
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Member Since:
3/14/2004
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| But some things never change. In my last post I asked why nice guys finish last, and I am still stuck on that question.
So here is my new, updated story...
A few weeks (4) ago I was set up with this one girl by a girl (her roommate) that I went to grade school with. We had a great first night together. The first night consisted of me and the 3 roommates going for ice cream, going to 2 parks, playing in a sprinkler at 1am, and going back to their apartment to watch movies. I thought we hit it off well. When the other girls went to bed, the one I was set up with and I talked for hours. I drove her to work the next day, then picked her up, we went to breakfast, we relaxed a little, and then I took her back to work. A great time I thought. The following week, it was raining so I picked her up so she didn't have to bike home. We then met later in the week, had dinner, and went back to her place for movies and conversations. The following morning was like the morning previously mentioned. The following week, the same thing happened. Now I am starting to learn more and more about this girl, and I really like her, so I decided to tell her. One would think that we made a cute couple, but it turns out that we don't.
She apparently had a few more boyfriends than she let me know about, and she didn't tell me that she was still with them. She didn't tell me that she only wanted me for sex, I thought she wanted more of a relationship. She didn't tell me that even though I thought we were exclusive, that she would continue sleeping with her boy-toys. She seemed great to her roommates when I was there, but I found out that it was just a front, and that she is a bitch to them.
Maybe I didn't finish last in this situation. Maybe it is a good thing that I have friends that help me out, and let me know what is going on before it is too late. The thing that I can't figure out though, is how could she pass, what I was giving, up? I cared for her, so I called her... but apparently a call a day is "suffocating." I would pay for everything, but apparently it wasn't the places that she wanted to go to. I would get movies that she wanted to watch, and talk afterwards, but apparently it wasn't enough.
I am against guys that play the field when they have a girlfriend. The same applies to females. She then lied about it. She said that she was going to go to bed early. The following day she said she crashed at 11. BUT she left the apartment at 10:45 to go to some guys place. I can't stand liars.
Some people would be hurt in my situation. I am not one of them. In fact, I am more confused, and more inquisitive, about what went wrong. I am trying to figure out what I did wrong, if anything. I don't want to break my arm patting myself on the back, but let me think of myself:
- determined
- hard working
- family orientated
- religious
- responsible/loyal/trustworthy
and I have a few bucks in the bank. Now what is wrong about these things? She can't sleep, so I stay awake to rub her back until she does. She is cold so I lend her a sweatshirt, in which she stole (another misleading sign). I bent over backwards for her, and yet I am not good enough.
So again...
Why do nice guys finish last?
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| Now as you read this I don't want you to think
that I am feeling sorry for myself. In fact, I want you to think if
any of this pertains to you. I am not just writing about myself here,
I am also writing about some of my friends, and of course, no names
will be mentioned.
It always seems to get me when girls are in
relationships and they complain about how their boyfriend is an
asshole. Just a few weeks ago this had happened to one of my friends.
She said she loved him, but she couldn't trust her man. She also
mentioned that he treated her poorly at times. For those reasons I
told her that, "you can do much better." She broke up with him, and
felt really bad about it. In fact, she wanted to call him up later
that night and get back together with him. However, later on that
night she found out that he already had another girlfriend. In my
mind, he is an ass. He had a great girl, but for some reason he wasn't
happy with her. Why are the good girls attracted to assholes?
I
know a bunch of guys, including myself, that have a lot in common.
They go to church regularly, they are involved in their families, they
are smart, they have great senses of humor, and great personalities.
The other thing that we all have in common is that we are all single!
Most of my friends have either never had a girlfriend, or have had one
for only a short period of time. We don't do drugs, smoke, get drunk
24/7, sleep with anyone that walks past us, but it isn't good enough.
We treat the girls that we like, at least I do, with the respect that
they deserve. We don't give them a reason not to trust us. We don't
give them a reason to question the relationship. I, personally, try to
spoil my girlfriend with love and affection, along with a few material
possessions. However, where has it gotten me?
I always try
to help others. It can be with school and tutoring, financially, or
just with some advice. Now it is my turn to ask for help. I just have
2 questions that I would like answered. And they are:
1.) Why are good girls attracted to assholes?
and
2.) Why do nice guys finish last? | | |
| For some reason my AIM messed up last night. I lost everyone in my buddylist. If you could please send me your screen name I will be forever grateful! | | |
| I hope that everyone's summer is going great. I am working my ass off, but having fun while doing so. To those that don't know... I got a new car. A red 1998 Mustang. Today is volleyball so I am really excited. I have to enter like 1200 tags into the computer by the weekend, so I am gonna stop this post so I can finish it. I want to be off on Friday so I can go up north Thursday night, go to Menards with my neighbor, and I hope to sealcoat our 10' x 150' driveway before my dad gets off of work on Friday. Wish me luck. Until the next time I post...
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| The wake for Judd's father will be on Friday, from 4:00 until 9:00 at Drake and Son Funeral Home at Berwyn and Western. His funeral services will be held at St. Hilary's on Bryn Mawr and California at 10:00 on Saturday. | | |
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